He said he wasn’t ready to have my baby… but wanted to have hers.
I used to beg the universe for a love that would fully choose me.
Until I realized—I had to choose me first.
Hello Lovers,
Let me tell you about the moment I realized I was done begging to be chosen.
There was a moment in a sacred ceremony—raw, open, woven in spirit—when the man I loved most looked me in the eyes and said:
“I’m not ready to have your baby. But I want to impregnate another woman. She’s just a friend. Will you support me in that journey?”
My entire body froze. My heart shattered in silence.
This was the man I thought I’d create life with… and in one breath, my dream dissolved into heartbreak.
I remember the sting of betrayal.
I remember the heat of shame.
I remember wondering, Am I not enough?
But it was in that very moment…
a voice inside whispered,.
“Girl, you deserve more than this”
Something inside me awakened and my mantra was born
I chose me.
That ceremony became my reckoning.
My rebirth.
My declaration.
I am worthy of a love that chooses me. Only me. Fully. Unapologetically. Devotedly.
I walked away from that relationship in 2017—tears in my eyes, power in my hips, fire in my soul.
I built myself back from the inside out.
Through self-pleasure. Through devotion. Through radical truth.
I stopped waiting for someone to choose me.
I became the woman who chooses herself.
Every. Damn. Day.
And now?
I’m planning my wedding with the love of my life.
A man who has chosen me from day one—even when I wasn’t sure or ready.
A love that deepened my understanding of devotion.
A love that reflects the fullness of who I am.
So don’t believe the story that men don’t want to commit.
Don’t buy into the lies that all love hurts.
Just because you’ve experienced infidelity, betrayal, or a man’s inability to rise into devotion, doesn’t mean the kind of love you long for doesn’t exist.
There are men who are begging for a woman to shine so brightly in her self-worth that they can find her.
Keep choosing you. Keep honoring your worth, because the love that sees you -all of you—is already on its way.
