Reprogramming You for Pleasure
Is something wrong with me?
No. Your body learned to protect you. Now it can learn to receive love, pleasure, and connection again.
« Ten months with her is more than a lifetime of therapy and thousands of books. »
I have a very corporate job and have always been skeptical of coaches and healers, but she is the real deal. She gets you out of your head and into your heart, where all the actual change occurs, and gives you real tools you can put into practice every day. It is absolutely life changing. I ended an unhealthy relationship and found my soulmate. My quality of life, perspective, and relationships have dramatically shifted for the better. I am happier, healthier, and more connected to myself and others.
Courtney B., Injury Attorney
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TEDx speaker. Featured Tantric Sexpert in Glamour, PopSugar, and Vogue Italy.
Maybe you’ve only ever asked it in your head.
“I can’t orgasm without my vibrator. Is something wrong with me?”
“I’ve never had an orgasm with my partner. Is something wrong with me?”
“I want to want sex. I just don’t. Is something wrong with me?”
“I hold everything together and feel nothing in my body. Is something wrong with me?”
You ask it over and over. You never say it out loud.
LESS SHAME, MORE PLEASURE.
No. Nothing is wrong with you.
Your vibrator isn’t the problem. Only about 18 percent of women orgasm from intercourse alone. Needing more is how most women’s bodies work.
Not climaxing with your partner is about safety, not skill. When your nervous system is on guard, pleasure has nowhere to land.
Low desire is a body stuck in survival mode. It’s hard to be on alert and turned on at the same time.
You were never taught. Almost no one was. That isn’t a flaw. It’s a gap, and gaps can be filled.
✨ Orgasms, solo or partnered
✨ Deeper intimacy and pleasure
✨ The devoted love you crave, whether you’re calling it in or deepening what you have
“The morning after our session I had more motivation than I’ve had in years. It was like my inner fire was reignited. I danced wildly in the kitchen while making tea. Places where I previously felt blocked have opened up.”
Lana B.
“Night and day, from who I was when I started to who I am now.”
Two years of one on one mentorship with Josefina, and the difference is life changing. She realigned me into believing in myself again, listening to my own inner voice, and quieting the chatter of a life that wasn’t mine, a life taught to me out of fear and scarcity by previous generations.
When I met Josefina, I was just coming out of a breakup and in the pits. Now I have the business of my dreams and the man of my dreams. We are engaged and expecting our first child. You broke so many walls down for me that now I live in a completely different world, and I’m so much happier here.
Rachel M.
How good can you stand it?
Watch my TEDx talk on why we hold ourselves back from pleasure and how to let more in.
Women like you, in their own words.
“Everything I was manifesting back then, using Josefina’s powerful methodology, has now come to life in the most beautiful ways. I recently got engaged!
Her guidance helped me tap into my desires, align with my vision, and create real, lasting transformation, all while making sure I feel good!”
Katie S.
Hey,
I’m Josefina.
I don’t think you need another guru. I think you need a guide who’s walked this path.
I’m a Feminine Empowerment Expert, Tantric Love, Sex, and Relationship Coach, and a Featured Tantric Sexpert in Glamour, PopSugar, and Vogue Italy.
I grew up in a Middle Eastern family where religious and cultural conditioning taught me to feel shame about my body, my pleasure, and my desires. I learned to hide them. I learned to stay small and not to ask for “too much”.
Breaking free from that shame changed everything. I discovered my body wasn’t broken. It was protecting me, and yours is doing the same. That’s why I created my TEDx talk on why we hold ourselves back from pleasure and ways to discover “how good can you stand it?”.
I’ve been in the Tantric healing arts since 2012 studying in the jungles of Asia, and I hold a Master’s in Spiritual Psychology.
Today I help women reprogram their bodies for pleasure, unlock their fullest orgasmic potential, and create the healthy, loving relationships they know they’re meant for.
Nothing is wrong with you. You’re just out of balance, and this is your opportunity to step back into your feminine.
Here’s what changes when we work together.
You become sexually powerful, and pleasure flows through your body again.
You get a full nervous system reset after years of taking care of everyone else and being told you’re not allowed to ask for what you need.
You heal your inner feminine, so your power feels pleasurable instead of pushed.
You stop attracting submissive men. Your work and your role as a mother kept you in your masculine. Now you invite his healthy masculine to lead, and the polarity in your dating and sex life flips.
You come back into your body with a restored sense of aliveness and receptivity.
You believe in yourself again and hear your own inner voice over the noise of what you were taught.
You release the fear, scarcity, and rules handed down from the generations before you, and heal the stories your body has been holding onto.
You find the strength to leave what hurts and create the love you’re meant for.
In their words:
“I’m sitting at my desk just happy and moving my pelvis to the beat of some music I have on softly… and just had a full on orgasm! This has never happened to me before. It was amazing!” Mira
“Each session with her gives me clarity and leaves me feeling more grounded.” Riley W., Owner of multiple F45 Training studios, VP of Recess
“Josefina helped me push past YEARS of limiting beliefs… so I can enjoy my damn life!” Alia Rehana, Personal Growth Teacher
“She helped me find strength within I never knew I had to end an abusive relationship.” Kalen A.
Let a blissful, embodied state of turn-on become the baseline way you live.
In her words…
Yasi A.
« I feel like being a woman is my superpower. Self love plays a huge role in how I show up for other sisters in my life. In supporting other women in my life, I am supporting myself and vice versa. It’s a circle of love and empowerment that only can happen by me living in this love for all the parts of myself. I feel like a woman for the first time in my life! »
Jessica
« After slowing down with breathwork, releasing any emotions that surface, stating my desires without shame, guilt, or fear, and giving voice to all things that make me feel good and whole, I opened my eyes. The room looks different. Even the curve in the lamp feels sensual. Thank you, Josefina, for constantly bringing me to presence through divine feminine practices of voicing, releasing, and feeling. Our time together is a precious gift. »
Jessica Winterstern
« Having dealt with past health issues that took a major toll on my physical and emotional body, I was seeking transformative guidance and alternative medicine that would help me heal. Josefina is epitome of that - transformative, alternative and healing. With years of experience and education I can say, she is someone worth investing in. Any part of me that's every doubted alternative medicine or has been skeptical of healers completely dissolved after my first session with Josefina. »
Drinie
« Everything we have learned in this program has been honey to my ears, and things are clicking for me. Taking on an evening ritual of self care and goddess love has made such a huge shift in my day. The biggest difference for me is that I am establishing these practices because my inner feminine was yearning to be healed. I had always viewed myself as a powerful person, but never tapped into my feminine. Now my ritual feels pleasurable and healing. »
Neha P.
« One hour in Josefina Bashout's energy has changed my whole vibration. She has changed the way I approach relationships and most crucially, myself. She approaches you with tender, loving, feminine, nurturing care and embodies the exact kind of freedom that every woman would yearn to live her life with. »
Candace
« Without you I truly would not be who I am or where I am today! You’re the best coach, sister, mentor, and friend I could have ever prayed for. Thank you for seeing me, loving me, and sticking by me through it all! »
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