In the world of Tinder, Raya, Grinder, Bumble, Hinged and online dating platforms our sexpecations are at an all time high for both men and women! Lets be real, women love sex just as much as men do but what woman love even more than straight away jumping in the sheets is foreplay and the ecstatic build up!
Here's the kicker though, as women we can move from physical world fun into "fantasy land" real quick and begin to activate our own sexpectations and can become very disappointed when we decide to sleep with a man and its less of the " O M G YESSSS" and ends being more like "meh" once the deed is done. What I want to share with you is that it doesn't have to be that way, even with a partner who you know
"isnt the one" you can still have great mind blowing love making with them and enjoy the ecstatic act of pleasure and receiving. This actually works both way for men too.
So why does it fizzle out instead of sparkle bright into orgasmic bliss when you finally get between the sheets?
Enter in our SEXPECTATIONS
According to the Urban Dictionary: The state of anticipating or expecting sexual intercourse from a social encounter, be it a date, a party, or a booty call. It describes a period of optimistic waiting that is just shy of a sure thing.
Its the feeling of having the thing we crave the most that gives us the most fulfillment. Get present and FEEL into the moment with that chosen someone and be in the NOW allowing the moment to unfold and stop trying to control how you get the feelings you desire and just be open to getting them. Here some juicy tips for changing things up and having more fun connections.
Flirt. Get Frisky. Play with your food!
Try a few of these juicy delectable favorites of mine: Watermelon + Honey + Mint + Ice cream + Bananas covered in chocolate!
Take it outside lovers!
Try daytime fun and shift up the lunar night play for some bright solar vibes. It generate more youthful energy between the two of you and brings in new elements that can supercharge your connection.
In the water, at the beach, under the trees.
The MORE SEX.....the LESS STRESS....Just Don't settle on mediocre love making!
I spent many years looking for love in the bottom of a shot glass at endless nightclubs, bars, and events and at a low point in my life I realized that no amount of alcohol, sex, and partying could satisfy my deep appetite for love. I discovered, through this perfectly designed journey of pain, that the love I was seeking was never outside of myself, it was patiently waiting to be reclaimed and unleashed. This Blog is medicine-Its my medicine to anyone who needs and desires it on their personal journey to reclamation.