ALIGNMENT// Blessings happen when your chakras are clean, balanced and shiny. There is no more resistance in your energy field and you are one with the flow of life. Nothing feels better to me than being in full alignment with my dreams, soul desire's and God/Spirit.
A lot of us have heard "what you resist will persist" and why is this? It's because we are actually using energy to "push away" what it is we want and by doing this we keep away what we truly want like abundance, pleasure, partnerships, and expansion.
When I allow energy to flow through my system, everything that is a reflection of that source energy can also flow to me, placing me in a position of RECEIVING. There was a misconception that if I held on to what I don't want to lose that I would get more- truth is that is actually LACK consciousness thinking-not thoughts coming from abundance-when I would come from this place I was in a more closed and contracted state subconsciously therefore creating resistance to receiving.
How does this impact your sexual confidence and bedroom behavior?
Im my experience I have seen a direct correlation of this reflected in my sexual relationships and depth of intimacy where if I am in any place of lack and contraction it shows up in the amount of pleasure and love I am able to receive. The more I open to my partner, friends, dreams, and life the more I can take in and run through my nervous system which attracts my desires. Trying to create from a place of where you are seeing something missing SHIFTS into asking for what you want and staying open long enough to receive it as it actualize in your life. Everything I want is always there and available to me and I am reminded of this each time i find myself trying to go out side and seek something that I perceive is missing. Over the weekend, I found myself in this misbelief-it's a tricky one to catch sometimes when it's active-I was seeking to be where everyone was, to make sure Im with the best people, doing all the things that they are doing and focusing so much outside of myself. I became less joyful about my experience, didn't feel as sexy or confident, and things didn't seem to be working out the way I wanted them to be. I was seeking to create from a place of perceived lack and trying to fill in what I thought I needed in that moment to feel more full and open. I say "perceived" lack because it was something that I viewed through my perception filter that was tinted with lack for in reality there is never truly lack but at times these glasses sneak on to my eyes and I forget. I am human.
What I did to shift this was I slowed down and stayed still. In the stillness I explored where was I not in alignment which was producing these feelings of contraction and unhappiness and keeping me away from what I desired which was deeper connection with new and old friends. In that place I was able to remembered the valuable lesson that I have to simply focus on what I do want and call it forward to me and like a magic genie granting me a wish-poof it all showed up within the next 30 minutes!
Now disclaimer; I have been doing this work for many many years so it takes my reality a much shorter time to catch up with me when i'm in alignment and for those who are newer to these metaphysical and spiritual practices that may think this is BS, I invite you to keep practicing and experiment with this as it will take less time for it to show up and shift your experience more you work this process.
I like to think about it this way: You're sitting in the middle of a field and all of your best friends, lovers, food, abundance, and heartfelt desires come out to play in the most EPIC game of hide and seek and they are all looking for you!
I spent many years looking for love in the bottom of a shot glass at endless nightclubs, bars, and events and at a low point in my life I realized that no amount of alcohol, sex, and partying could satisfy my deep appetite for love. I discovered, through this perfectly designed journey of pain, that the love I was seeking was never outside of myself, it was patiently waiting to be reclaimed and unleashed. This Blog is medicine-Its my medicine to anyone who needs and desires it on their personal journey to reclamation.