Masturbation is like sex light. All the pleasure none of the calories! Sex Magic (sometimes spelled sex magick) is any type of sexual activity used in magical, ritualistic or otherwise religious and spiritual pursuits. One practice of sex magic is using the energy of sexual arousal or orgasm with visualization of a desired result. -Wikipedia
When I learned about the power of sexual energy as creative force and how to cultivate and channel that energy I was skeptical at first but thought i would give it try. With an open mind and willingness to practice, I learned to marry my orgasmic energy with an intention to manifest what I wanted to bring into reality.
This is how I was able to manifest my dream home in Topanaga California, made over $5,000 almost overnight to invest in my education and manifest men who worship me as a Goddess.
7 Steps on how to create M A G I C with a Solo tantric practice!
(Once you get this going it will be easier to include this with a partner practice.)
1. Create a space where you are undisturbed for an hour. This is a time is for you to cherish yourself. Make this a sacred ritual: set the room up with candles and flowers; have your favorite music playing, i have a sexy playlist I put on that gets me in the mood as soon as I hear the first beat. This creates a juicy serene, sexy and sensual space.
2. Come into conscious breathing in a sitting position as you prepare to lay down. The breath allows energy to flow effortlessly throughout your body and between partners. The breath assists in channeling your sexual energy in the sex magic ritual. (To learn more about conscious breathing you may want to check out TantraNova’s Foundational Practices CD) or work with Kundalini Breath work.
3. Set an Intention! Reflect on what you’d like to create in your life, work, family, intimate relationship with yourself or with your partner. See yourself in full financial abundance and freedom. Give yourself time to become clear and allow the vision to activate. This is where the sex magic becomes ignited and connects the third eye to your sexual life force creative energy.
4. Raise your energy. Breathe your energy from your sexual center (pussy/pelvic area if your a man) up to your crown center on the inhalation and back down and out again on the exhalation. Touch yourself and keep a physical connection to your body as your arousal and pleasure increases. Keep listening to yourself body's wisdom and how it wants to be stroked. Keep breathing while circulating your energy within yourself.
5. Let the orgasmic energy flow without going straight into climaxing. While riding the wave of orgasmic flow, focusing on full body pleasure; not just one spot or a quick orgasm. This is is where you build up to an oceanic energy flow through your entire sensual system and activates your kundalini energy. Stay in that flow as long as you like and can. The ritual is particularly powerful if you don’t climax. This way the energy gets channeled into your creation and vision.
6. Slow it down! Ride your own edge, keep breathing and circulating within. You can start to feel deep ecstasy and even tingling sensations through out your whole body at this point. Raise your arousal level again and increase your breathing.
7. MAGIC! Allow yourself to go into full climax as you feel the bliss of receiving what your highest vision and desire is all streaming through your veins and body!
Upon completion acknowledge to yourself or share with your partner how you feel and what’s shown up for you.
I spent many years looking for love in the bottom of a shot glass at endless nightclubs, bars, and events and at a low point in my life I realized that no amount of alcohol, sex, and partying could satisfy my deep appetite for love. I discovered, through this perfectly designed journey of pain, that the love I was seeking was never outside of myself, it was patiently waiting to be reclaimed and unleashed. This Blog is medicine-Its my medicine to anyone who needs and desires it on their personal journey to reclamation.